What we do
Mirror Me - Identity
See yourself. A little more clearly.
Hit pause. Zoom out.
Look again.
why this matters
Here, you begin to see the patterns you’re living more clearly, so you can move forward with more ease and understanding.
What you begin to see ?
- How you make sense of yourself and the world
- Where you adapt, perform, or hold back
- What triggers you — and what softens things
- Which patterns once protected you, but now limit you
Step into the journey
This journey unfolds in four steps
1. Choose
Choose how you’d like to begin – with a Scan or a Discovery. You share your details to access the survey. If you choose discovery, you also book your 1:1 session in my calendar.
2. Take survey
You complete the online identity survey — honestly and based on how you experience yourself right now. It takes around 30 minutes.
3. See
You receive a clear overview of your key patterns -- how you tend to think, respond, and relate. Take a moment to let it land.
4. Get curious
You begin to make sense of what you see. On your own, or together with me, you explore how these insights connect to your current goals, challenges, and sense of ease in daily life.
Choose how you’d like to begin
Option 1
Identity Scan
A first mirror – clear and easy to explore at your own pace.
- Online identity survey
- Summary of your key insights
99 euro
Option 2
Identity Discovery
A deeper look – explored together and easy to connect to your daily life.
- Online identity survey
- 90 min 1:1 coaching session
- Written reflections of insights and coaching takeaways
175 euro
Glimpses of the Identity Mirror
Guided with care
Hi there, I am Maaike!
I’m a psychologist by training and by heart – with over 10 years of experience in coaching and a special interest in Identity. 😊
My work draws from modern psychology, and is rooted in a deep trust in human potential and in meeting life as it is.
I bring what I try to live — curiosity, kindness and courage — to create a space where things can be seen more clearly, and where you feel supported in what you want to explore.
A personal note
Note on data protection
Your data is handled with care and confidentiality according to the EU GDPR rules. The survey and results remain private and are only used to support your process.
What stayed with people
Unfiltered voices
With care and without ever rushing, Maaike offers fresh perspectives and thoughtful challenges to her clients' professional assumptions always grounded, always respectful.
Maaike has a unique gift for helping people see their strengths and move forward with clarity and confidence.
Walk your path only
Feeling something?
You’re welcome to get in touch before taking the survey.
Frequently Asked Questions?
Good question 🙂
The science‑nerd in me is happy to share that this scan is based on the Big Five model — one of the most researched and well-validated frameworks in personality psychology.
It offers a clear mirror of how you tend to think, respond, and relate right now.
What makes it truly valuable is not just the result,but how you recognise yourself in it — and begin to work with it in your daily life.
The aim is not to “label”, but to see more clearly where you are today — and from there, move with more ease and choice.
There’s quite a lot to say about that 🙂
This model is grounded in decades of research and offers a strong level of reliability and validity.
You can compare it to a thermometer — it gives you a clear indication of where you are.
At the same time, it’s still just a snapshot — a mirror in the moment.
The real value lies in what you do with it: understanding yourself a little more deeply, finding the courage to face what helps and what doesn’t, and learning how to work with it — in a way that benefits both you and others.
The Scan gives you clear takeaways. In the Discovery session, we go further — and connect it directly to your life, your roles, and your current challenges.
I have a Master’s degree in psychology and was trained directly by the researchers behind these tools.
Over the past 15+ years, I’ve worked with individuals, leaders, and teams — across coaching, leadership development, recruitment, and conflict work.
The tool matters — I’ve seen that many times. But what makes the difference is how we work with it together.
That’s where things start to open, and where it becomes real in daily life.
Good — you can keep that 🙂
There’s no need to believe in anything upfront.
This work is not about adopting a system, but about exploring your own experience.
Even the Buddha encouraged people to stay curious, to question, and to test things for themselves.
So you might simply try it — and see what it brings you, from your own experience.
You begin to recognise your patterns in real situations — in conversations, decisions, and reactions.
From there, something shifts. You gain a bit more space, and more choice in how you respond.
Over time, this builds into a more natural way of understanding yourself, relating to others, and moving through life with more clarity and ease."
Most leaders genuinely want to do a good job — and carry a lot of responsibility.
At the same time, not everyone has learned how to work with people in a way that feels natural and effective.
This work helps you understand yourself more deeply, explore your natural leadership styles — and from there, understand how to coach your team.
It allows you to adapt how you lead, communicate more clearly, and create stronger collaboration within your team.
Every time I use this tool in teams, I’m still surprised by its impact. When people begin to see and understand their differences, something shifts.
What once created friction often becomes easier to recognise and work with.
This brings clarity, shared understanding, and often a sense of relief.
From there, trust and collaboration start to grow — quite naturally, and sometimes even a bit more lightness enters the room.
You may already sense that this can open something.
If you’d like to continue exploring, there are a few ways:
• A follow-up session to go deeper
• Joining one of the awareness journeys
• A more extended 3–6 month process
And for those who feel ready for a bigger shift in setting, there is also the Fly‑In experience.
We can simply explore what fits you best.
